If the answer is no to either then it’s time to hold yourself accountable (me included)!
I’ve revisited my aspirations for this year and have set myself new goalposts for the ones I haven’t actioned yet. There’s nothing wrong with moving goalposts, especially if you’re now spread thin or underestimated the amount of time, work, experience etc. it will take. Also, your circumstances can change just like that and means you have to adjust to them. 🤷🏾♀️
One thing I do to manage my time, especially as I have very little personal time at the moment is heavily rely on my iPhone’s calendar to keep me on schedule. I’ve always used it for general reminders but now I use it for everything because my life is extremely busy and things are going to slip my mind. This is such a small thing but it has a huge impact on your productivity and time management. Obviously, there’s loads of apps dedicated to this but I personally love using my phone’s calendar as it syncs with all my Apple devices so there’s no escaping what I need to get done.
Be realistic and adaptable when it comes to your goals. You’re the only person who can make them happen.